According to an article published in the Chicago Tribune, it can take 2-5 years on average for blended families to find their new normal. And as many as 10 years for some families!

I was forced to realize that there isn’t ONE way to celebrate the holiday’s.

I’ve got some serious “gamers” in my family. But if I’m being honest, I just don’t get it. Sitting in front of a computer and figuring out how to maneuver my player through the next “level” is not my idea of fun. So how do I instill and govern healthy behavior, while honoring other’s perspectives and passions?

After navigating the change of blending new families—introducing new parents, moving-in together, figuring out new schedules or finances, etc.—it’s easy to think the hard work is behind you! And yet, with each passing day our families experience change in maturity, social circles, employment … and even hair color!